my dad walked out on thursday night. he left with "she goes or I do." "she" meaning me. I called and told him I'd be out by monday and he can come back because the rest of my family are miserable without him. I'm seventeen. idk what I'm gonna do.
Find a friend to stay with. Most importantly stay safe.
So there is this guy that i really like but i feel like he doesn't like me as much as i like him. He means a lot to me and i really want to be with him, but sometimes i feel like he doesn't reealllly like me. What should i do?
Tell him. Sometimes it takes a little boost. Some guys are just soo clueless so you have to tell us then the feelings will start to form :)
Any advice on how to get over an ex boyfriend who treated you like shit for three years? We broke up in November and even though it's good for me, I don't know how to get over him :(
I don’t think I’m the right person to give advice on this because I can’t get over my ex. The only way I can think of is find someone new. I know how hard that is but as soon as you find someone that you really care about then it’s all so easy from there.
What do you do when you love someone, but they don't want to be with you? I love my ex boyfriend, like I am truly in love with him, and we still talk, and he says that he loves me, too, but he doesn't want to be together. I don't get it. Does he really love me, or is he just saying it because I say it?
I know how you feel. I suggest trying to find someone else. I know, it’s hard. But you have to..
Since you are a very attractive boy, i want to know your opinion on what a girl should look like "down there" should it be shaved or what? I just got a boyfriend and i dont really know what he expects, i dont want this to sound weird but i want to know what guys want.
Shaven oh god I would not want to put my penis in a forest. It might get lost.
Life sucks ty. I can't believe I was so stupid to believe that he had stopped. He tried to hide it from me but I am not stupid. I smelt it. That scared look on his face.... I'm scared too. He's smoking weed again and I hate him for it.. except I can't because he's my dad.
Everyone has their beliefs. I honestly don’t think weed is bad. It’s different for everyone though. I’m sorry.
My mum had cancer but overcame it twice. She thinks I'm depressed because I don't like letting people in or talking about my feelings so she is trying to drag me to a therapist. I've tried telling her I just don't want to talk to a stranger about these things but she doesn't get it... Should I just go for it or should I stick with my gut instinct of keeping things to myself?
Talk about what’s going on. It helps. You’re going to feel much better.
My bf and my ex are really good friends. i met my bf when i was dating my ex. My ex meant everything to me and still does. He wasn't the best bf and he didn't always talk or be with me because of work, his parents, etc. He makes me happy. My current bf is just sweet but we have nothing in common. I still love my ex but I don't love my bf. My bf loves me though. He's like my best friend. My ex was/is so much more than that. I would rather be just friends with both of them, but I'm not a </3-er
After a break up it’s really hard to just stay friends. I know that from experience. I honestly don’t know what to tell you :/
To the anon that's boyfriend is in boarding school, pretty much everything they answered is true! My boyfriend is in military school right now and I write him letters and it's always fun to get them back from him! Hanging out with friends is a really good way to take your mind off of it, you'll still think about it though unfortunately, especially if your friends are forever talking about their boyfriends! But this whole thing will make your relationship so strong, so hang in there!
Long distance will last as long as you can both be loyal. <3 That’s the only other advice I have. c:
You should buy him a cute sweater and spray your perfume on it. <3 Personally I think that would be cute. <3
I'm 19 years old, 5'5", and weigh 115 pounds. I think I'm fat and disgusting. I used to starve myself when I was 13, but got really sick because of it. I finally got back to being a somewhat healthy weight, but I still think I'm fat despite knowing that I'm not. I try to starve myself, but I just can't because I'm scared of getting sick again. But I hate myself: both because I feel fat, but also because I don't WANT to feel this way. What do I do?
Get counseling… and a nutrition doctor to make your body feel better.
You’re beautiful no matter what you weigh or look like, I promise you that. You could weigh 500pounds and someone will still think you are beautiful, because you are. Honestly there’s not much I could tell you because you won’t believe me; counseling is your best bet honestly.
My boyfriend jokes around about wanting to do other girls and etc,he says he loves me but he won't even tell anyone we are dating.. Can you just give me some advice?
Well this is a hard one… and I’m gonna try my best not to be to harsh but I’ve been in a situation like this and it’s terrible.
First of all if he won’t tell anyone that’s terrible. He should want to show you off and if he doesn’t then he doesn’t deserve you. A boyfriend should treat you like a princess. Second of all if he’s “joking” about wanting to do things with other girls it’s probably because he wants to or wants your permission… Your relationship needs to be reevaluated.
I've been with this guy for a year now and he literally means everything to me. But a week ago he left for a boarding school his parents are making him go to because he got in trouble. I can't talk to him for 6 months and I already miss him so much. Its killing me, i think about him and everything he did for me everyday and I just wanna be happy. How do I take my mind off of it ? </3
Write him cute letters.
Draw him cute pictures.
Just send him stuff.
If you truly want to get your mind off him get a hobby or start spending all your time with other people.
My bf is in the army & has served overseas for a year, & he's coming home next week. We've been official for almost 2 months, but we were unofficial before he was deployed & he ended up playing me with his ex & after that we became best friends. He realized he was wrong & apologized, but I'm still scared. I'm a virgin and want to have sex with him, but I'm scared he might just be using me so idk yet :/ He blocked his ex but I'm still terrified to loose him. What do I do? Should we have sex?
It’s all up to you. If you think you can trust him then go for it, but if you’re really that scared don’t. Usually your conscience knows what’s the best for you, even if your heart wants something else.
my boyfriend found out i cheated on him one time and hes been yelling at me but he doesnt know that i know how many times hes cheated on me. should i tell him i know or just let him bitch at me because i deserve it?
Tell him you know. Talk it out but be civil about it. No yelling :)
my bf is constantly choosing going with his friends and smoking over hanging out with me. weve hung out once in our 6 month relationship. everytime we have plans he bails on me. should i end it with him?
Yes, you should. If he doesn’t want to hang out with you he’s obviously not putting a lot of effort into it.
My boyfriend knows that cheerleader is my world, and this past weekend was the biggest competition was the biggest one of the season and I really wanted him to be there. He hasnt come to one at all, and I go to all his basketball games. It made me upset when all my cheer girls got to run and jump on their boyfriend after we performed cause we did so good. I told him I wished he was there and now were fighting. Did I start an unnecessary fight? :/
It wasn’t really unnecessary. You wanted him to be there and he wasn’t. I think you should just try to end the fight and talk it through rather than getting mad at each other.
so im starting a new school soon and i found out theres already a rumor that i had sex with 4 guys from there in one night and that i have herpes. and neither of them are true, and i seriously dont wanna go to a school like that if theres already a rumor about me and i havent even went there a day in my life, but im tired of the poeple at my school i go to now. should i stay at my school now or go to the new one? :/
I honestly don’t know. Rumors blow over and sometimes you just have to deal with the bad to get to the good.
Okay so I am really close to this guy and he basically saved my life one night by talking to me right when I was about to kill myself. But then out of nowhere he said "If somebody thinks of suicide, they might as well just do it because they are weak." I acted like I didn't care but it hurt really bad and I don't get why he said that. Should I talk to him about it? If so, what do I say?
You should talk to him about it. Don’t just hold it in. Words are meant to be spoken. Not held inside :) <3
Chin up, buttercup. Woah oh oh oh. Chin up, buttercup. Woah oh oh oh. I'd "sing" you the rest but i don't know the words. And they're no where to be found anywhere haha. Sooo... You make me happy whether you know it or not. We should be happy, that's what I said from the start.<3333 Be happy Ty, okay? For me? :) I woveee youuu!! <3
I want you to be happy ty :( it kills me seeing you sad because you've done nothing to deserve to be upset. I know I don't know you but I feel like I care about you because you're so sweet to everyone. I love you
What do i do if i think i fucked absolutely everything up. i started being friends with these guys who i wasnt aloud to be friends with. and now im only friends with one. i really want to still be friends witht he other guy but im afraid. no matter what i do i fuck everything up. when i try to fix it, it gets worse. and i kinda caused this girl to attempt suicide which made me attempt it. im lost and dont know how to fix this.
Just be friends with him. Talk to him. I fuck up a lot too. You just can’t give up.
Hey cutie :) I just wanted to tell you that you're absolutely amazing. You're so sweet but at the same time you are funny and sarcastic and I love it! You've helped a lot of people out there. And made a lot of girls feeel beautiful. You should be proud of yourself! Anyway, you're great and I love you (: <3
Well I’m sweet to amazing people <3 Which is all of you :) As for me making them feel beautiful, I am only telling them the facts. I tell you because I can see it if someone can’t see it then they are blind :)